Meet Kamogelo – The Teen with the Can-do Attitude
Spinal cord injury survivor is a capable and helpful big brother
5 September 2024: At 14 years old, Kamogelo Sodi of Alberton enjoys listening to music, chatting with his friends on social media and working hard at school towards his dream of becoming a neurosurgeon one day. He cooks for himself when he’s hungry and loves looking after his three little brothers. He also likes playing basketball. The difference between him and most other teenagers is that he does all this from his wheelchair.
“Since I’ve been in a wheelchair, I’ve become more confident,” says the vivacious teenager. “I was extremely shy, and I didn’t have a lot of friends, but now I have loads of friends.”
In 2016, when he was just six years old, Kamogelo’s life changed forever. He was in a devastating car crash, which left him with fractures in the lumbar region of his spine, resulting in complete paraplegia.
Once discharged from the hospital, where he had emergency surgery, Kamogelo was sent to the Netcare Rehabilitation Hospital to learn how to cope with, as his mother Reshoketswe Sodi calls it, his new normal. He was to stay there for almost six months.
Mrs Sodi, a radiation therapist, says the enduring care of the doctors, occupational therapists and physiotherapists there helped support Kamogelo and their family on their journey towards accepting and learning to cope with this difficult transition in his life. “It was important for me that he continued his schoolwork while there. When the social worker asked me what I wanted to happen, the first thing I said was that I didn’t want to break the routine of what he had been doing and that I wanted him to continue with school.
“It’s been a struggle, but with the help of the occupational therapists and physiotherapists, it has been an easier journey. We saw real progress when they taught Kamogelo something, and he grasped it, putting all his energy into it by thinking positively about it. It’s been hard, but with the support of the team from Netcare Rehabilitation Hospital, we managed it,” she says.
“After he was discharged, initially, we lived in a flat on the seventh floor. When the lifts weren’t working, like during load shedding, I’d have to carry him upstairs on my back – there was no other way to take him up. I’m so fortunate that I had a lot of support from my family and friends who’ve been pillars of strength for us.”
Kamogelo remembers his first visit to the Netcare Rehabilitation Hospital in Auckland Park. “When I first got to the hospital, I was lost. I didn’t know how to use a wheelchair. I was still so young. But they were so kind and taught me everything I needed to know.
“At first, I struggled to move around. I battled to transfer myself from place to place, but they showed me what to do, and over time, I started getting used to it. I managed to start moving myself around, and I began to enjoy it. From that day forward, I didn’t like people pushing me around. The staff also taught me how to transfer myself from my wheelchair to the car. It was a bit difficult at first, but I learned to push myself up properly so my bottom wouldn’t scrape on the wheelchair.
“It does help you become more independent, but you must be consistent. You don’t need to complain about things, you just need to listen to the people who want to help you learn to be independent.”
Later, in 2022, when he was 12 years old, Kamogelo returned to the Netcare Rehabilitation Hospital after he developed a severe pressure sore.
Dr Anrie Carstens, a doctor at the Netcare Rehabilitation Hospital, said Kamogelo was operated on at Netcare Milpark Hospital under the care of a plastic surgeon who did a flap to close the wound. “When the doctor was happy with his progress, Kamogelo came to us to help him because you get weak after surgery. The wound had healed, but the skin was delicate, so we had a graded seating approach for him to build up his strength and so that the areas of the skin didn’t break down. Another area of focus for Kamogelo was spasticity at the ankles. We worked on relaxing the ankles to get to a ninety-degree angle so he could sit better in his chair with his feet positioned well in the footrest.”
When homesickness inevitably struck, the staff comforted Kamogelo. “I began to miss home, and I cried and said I wanted to go home. They spoke nicely to me and said they first had to help me so I could go back home with no problems so my parents wouldn’t have to worry about me because of the pressure sore.”
Kamogelo said the staff also taught him valuable techniques to help him empty his bladder and bowels and assisted him in his journey to independence. “I was worried it would be painful and was a bit hesitant to try them out. But, doing it daily helped my routine and helped me become independent.”
Charne Cox, a physiotherapist at Netcare Rehabilitation Hospital, describes Kamogelo as bubbly, intelligent and with lovely manners. “He’s so motivated and tried so hard in therapy. He manages to go to school each day, not because of us, but because of his character.”
She says as children grow, their needs change. “The pressure sore developed because his seating in his wheelchair was not adequate because he had grown so much. We collaborated with the wheelchair manufacturer to re-evaluate and reassess the wheelchair seating, and they made him a new wheelchair. He was getting heavier, and his feet weren’t in alignment, so it was trickier for him to safely transfer from the wheelchair to the bed, for instance. It was good to re-educate him on pressure relief and pressure sores. It’s vital that adolescents are taught to take responsibility for themselves.”
Cox also helped Kamogelo work towards getting his feet in a better position.
“Children are so good about learning to use a wheelchair. Kamogelo was so motivated to move and be independent. He absorbed the information we gave him to enable him to go up ramps, turn and even do wheelies because he liked to explore.
“Children want to learn and have fun. They want to be independent. It’s amazing to help give them the tools to be the best new person they can be. Unfortunately, sometimes we can’t fix the injury, but we can give them the best opportunity to be as independent as possible. It’s so satisfying to know that Kamogelo is going to school and playing basketball.”
Kamogelo is determined to pursue a career as a neurosurgeon. “As long as I follow the path that I want to do and enjoy it, I will continue pursuing that path. Academically, I was the top achiever from grade four to grade six at my school.”
When he’s not at school, he loves going around the estate he lives in, getting fresh air, and being a good big brother to his three younger brothers. “They’re a handful, but what can I say – they’re my brothers, and I love them,” he says with a laugh.
Asked who his hero is, Kamogelo is quick to say his mother and father are both his heroes. His mom clearly thinks he’s a hero too. She’s smiling as she speaks about her son. “He’s playful and has a great sense of humour. He’s helpful in the house. Instead of wanting us to help him, thanks to the skills he learned at Netcare Rehabilitation Hospital, Kamogelo always says, ‘Let me give you a hand. Let me help you.’”
